The Myth Of the Perfect Relationship
Men and women are different from each other, there is no secret there. The gender differences have been analyzed and over analyzed. We know that men and women are wired differently. Why? Whoever created us wanted some entertainment and decided to make it as chaotic as possible.
For those of us who choose to have ‘normal’ relationships, it’s not easy. It is frustrating sometimes, to a point where we go into dark places not knowing how to react, make the other person understand what you are going through because of this different wiring. Men are always complaining about how women don’t understand and vice versa.
Is there a point to relationships? Most of us are afraid of ending up alone and lonely at an older age. Some of us are worried about society wondering why we are still single. Some of us are just going with the flow of what everybody else does. Some of us want someone we can share our lives with or someone who can support us emotionally. This generally drives people into the wrong relationships, the end of which causes severe emotional trauma, pain, misery and unwanted feelings of inferiority. Why do we find the wrong people at the right time? I don’t know. Why do we find the right people at the wrong time? I don’t know. Why do we find people at all? I don’t know.
Most of us change so much in a relationship, it’s like not being yourself anymore. Most of us are always trying to work our lives around the other person. I don’t see that as a bad thing if YOU think the change is for YOUR good. Don’t do it to make someone else happy. People are evolving, change is imperative, relationships are different. A lot revolves around time and money. Yet, we run around to find the perfect guy/gal. There is no perfect, there will probably never be perfect.
The new age relationships require low or no expectations to be happy because that is what the world has come to. And then people wonder why a lot of people these days do not want to get into the hassle of a relationship because that is what it is now, a hassle. LOL
Your ever loving,
Ignorant god.
Music listened to:
Goodbye to romance, crazy train, no more tears – Ozzy Osbourne
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